Religion question

[formylilgirl]

I would like to know if religion helped or hindered your divorce, and subsequent recovery from divorce. I would like to hear your experiences to test my theory. Thanks for participating.

[Tyrell]

For me, it played absolutely no role what so ever.

[formylilgirl]

For me, it played absolutely no role what so ever.

right.. I will add that one..

[formylilgirl]

adding a new question killed the 1st vote, please revote if you can. thanks

[Fatheroffour]

When my wife was taking our children to our church with her boyfriend the lack of judgement would have spun Paul in his grave and was counter to the teachings of the church. It left a shltty taste in my mouth that still lingers.

[jerico08]

Nutjob was coddled and made to feel loved and warm and I was shunned by the same people I shared fellowship with years back..all becauuse they believed her lies. God don't like ugly and this church was the ugliest. I left them all in their own sewage and found another church and enjoy it. The other church a few years later lost a host of members, donors, the Clergy left , went deeply into debt and eventually closed it's doors, it's now an annex for some for profit drug rehab. As I said..God don't like ugly.

[KeepingMyKids]

NJ now runs with what I can only describe as a "militant agnostic" crowd. Her parents are ministers, her grandmother has been a Pentecostal minister for at least 50 years. Beyond the fact that, except for her butch sister, her whole family still loves me and hate Mr. Wonderful, no real religious concerns.

[RustBeltCrooner]

NJ now runs with what I can only describe as a "militant agnostic" crowd.

STBX declared herself an atheist and withdrew from all religion. I joined a church on my own and got good support during my divorce so far.

[RC211V]

I was religious growing up and got married young because I was told to, basically. I kept going until I had my first kid, when I quit because I didn't want to brainwash him like my parents did to me. It was almost as hard a decision and divorcing my wife.

So religion had a total impact on my marriage, but none on my divorce.

[kal]

I held in there until I could not take it anymore. I believed in my vows.