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New here...very long story short, my wife and i lived together for 7 years before getting married in 2010. before we married we split for a year, less than 4 months after getting married I found out for sure this time she was cheating on me. We split again...I let her come back this april....we made it till last week, shes up to the same old stuff. hiding things, coming home late and not telling me where shes been ect. anyway we have a 6 year old son this will be split # 3 for all of us....My question, I can't do this anymore, I can't put my son through this again...I love him but with all her BS I'm having thoughts of just walking away...I've tried so hard to trust her and work things out but I failed. Is it better for my son? sign away my rights and have a nice life?
During the first 2 splits all she did was rook me around, she never showed up when she said she would, she would randomly cry poor and i would send her money (dumb) my son would randomly call me her BF name by mistake. theres just no dealing with her...why put my son threw all that? back and forth even with any kind of court order it will never end.
""There's an old saying in Tennessee — I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — [pauses] — shame on you. Fool me — [pauses] — You can't get fooled again." - GWB
I'll break it down for you: If you're thinking of bailing on the child, "just walking away," get lost. If you're asking how you can move forward with divorce while remaining an integral part of your kid's life, then we're ready to provide that advice. Which is it?