I did what I had to do

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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby Gator » Fri May 25, 2012 11:56 pm

Yeah. Thanks. I'll do that.

I want to know where the money came from. I kept a close eye on my accounts and didn't notice anything suspicious while I was in Afghanistan.
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby keko » Sat May 26, 2012 12:06 am

Maybe money was withdrawn in small amounts over a long period. Or she sold some valuables from the house?
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby Gator » Sat May 26, 2012 12:15 am

Maybe she did, but I can't find anything missing. It also looks like it was put there over time. Where in the hell was she getting it?
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby keko » Sat May 26, 2012 12:21 am

If nothing is missing inside the house I would say she is/was selling her body.

Can you check her computer and phone bill for anything out of the ordinary?
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby Gator » Sat May 26, 2012 12:23 am

I have checked the phone bill. I don't know any of the numbers she has been calling, except for her family and people like that. She took her computer though. I can't check anything on there now.
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby keko » Sat May 26, 2012 12:29 am

Any calls/texts late in the night? Give a call to few of them, if a male's answer most of them you'll have a better idea of what she's been doing.

Others might disagree but you already know enough of her affairs, finding more will only hurt you deeper. Just forget about them and go hard with the assault charges and divorce.
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby Gator » Sat May 26, 2012 12:40 am

I don't know what to do. I know that her last affair tried to kick my < edited > at one point.

I am actually in fear of my safety, and my son's safety now.
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby keko » Sat May 26, 2012 12:44 am

Change all of the locks and keep a voice recorder on yourself all the time, if possible ask a close friend to sleep over for a while.
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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby Fatheroffour » Sat May 26, 2012 6:07 am

Gator wrote:OK. I need some input on this one. Please PM everyone out there and have them read and give input. It is making me very nervous.

So, as you all know, she was served the PO today. In her rush to get out of the house, she left behind one of her bags. I thought she may have not needed it and it was empty. However, when I picked it up, I could feel that it was full.

Curiousity got the better of me and I began to rummage through it. Inside was some very nice lingerie, bras etc...AND $1600.00 in cash! That didn't bother me quite as much as her birth control pills. Why might that bother me, you might ask. Well...because I had a vasectomy after our son was born! She doesn't need the pill!

Please. Somebody try to make sense of this for me.


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Re: I did what I had to do

Postby Gator » Sat May 26, 2012 7:32 am

Yes. It appears that she is.
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