cdavis wrote:Most pre-nups are last minute and under conditions similar to yours, there is a chance it could be set aside but its far from certain.
I'm pretty certain. I'm certain because of the caselaw in which these last-minute pre-nups are tossed out in the interest of justice. The duress created by having to sign a pre-nup document, after having spent the deposit on the wedding, and the embarassment of invited family and friends to a cancelled wedding, is easily seen to a layman. In this case, the wife was faced with going on vacation - or not going on vacation - when the hubby slipped that old piece of paper in front of her.
For the Pre-nup to be rock solid, the couple cannot have made any of the actual wedding plans. Caselaw shows that even setting the date can be problematic.
Further, lacking any proof of the understanding that this pre-nup would bar her from the assets gained during the marriage (proof as in her own attorney stating it to her), and the whole LLC shell game of sheltering his assets, the Judge is going to start fresh.
I admit there is a lot of grey area here, but the OP has some indicators that make his specific case apparent. Buying a cut-and-paste Pre-nup from a website is a long way from the real thing. And having your non-lawyer brother set up an LLC, also likely from a cut-and-paste package, is additional proof that the legal protections were simply a veneer to obscure matters from the Court.
If you're serious about legal matters, you have a lawyer do it. Not specifically directed at the OP, but when you play fast and loose - and cheap - with legal matters, it tends to crumble apart at the slightest challenge.
cdavis wrote:I would certainly try to enforce it. Your spouse would have to spend money fighting it and her attorney would maybe do something like settle for 25% of the business's value.
Hell yes, try to enforce it, but understand that as a component to a larger strategy. She will spend a lot less money fighting it than you will defending it - and why settle for 25% when she is entitled to 50%.
The OP needs a lawyer, he's up to his eyeballs in some issues that revolve around not using a lawyer to begin with.