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[The864]

If your ex was a lesbian, would you still have a case? Or is it just because it's a male?

Yes, that is actually worded in the papers, including lesbian, homosexual and even bisexual.

[BartSimpson]

Talk about covering all the bases - even bisexual? Or did you mean Transgender?

[The864]

Talk about covering all the bases - even bisexual? Or did you mean Transgender?

That is standard parenting guide lines in this county set by the judge.

[BartSimpson]

Since this is so problematic, have you discussed it with your children?

Do you discuss the birds and the bees with them on an age appropriate level?
Do you discuss good-touch and bad-touch, and bathing suit lines?
Do your children know how to reach you if they feel uncomfortable with Mom's carpool buddy?

[The864]

Since this is so problematic, have you discussed it with your children?

Do you discuss the birds and the bees with them on an age appropriate level?
Do you discuss good-touch and bad-touch, and bathing suit lines?
Do your children know how to reach you if they feel uncomfortable with Mom's carpool buddy?

They are kids. 5 and 7. They dont know its "problematic". Like a ocean undertow, you have to teach them right from wrong and morals. So its my job as a moral parent to teach them that.

A no, I dont approach the kids for info or really talk about it because the papers say dont talk to them about it unless they approach me. Which my son and daughter have. I say as less as possible to satisfy their need for a answer or comment. Guardian Ad Litem will say the same things about not approaching them for info.

Plus...Car pool buddies dont sleep in their beds with children there.

[BartSimpson]

I'll repeat my questions again:

Do you discuss the birds and the bees with them on an age appropriate level?
Do you discuss good-touch and bad-touch, and bathing suit lines?
Do your children know how to reach you if they feel uncomfortable with Mom's carpool buddy?

[Fatheroffour]

Case law has already been established on this. Don't try convincing us that your podunk judge gets to rewrite the laws of your state. This isn't about child safety. You've said as much, over and over. This is about you and your freakish obsession to control your ex.

Good luck in cutting the kids mother out of their lives. Those chickens will be a joy to feed when they come home to roost.

What are you going to tell your children when they ask why they can't see their mom?

[BubbaGumpShrimp]

Had a talking today with my lawyers assistant.

You got all of this RAAR confidence after speaking to your lawyers assistant? Is your lawyers assistant even permitted to offer legal advice?

[Fatheroffour]

If your ex was a lesbian, would you still have a case? Or is it just because it's a male?

Yes, that is actually worded in the papers, including lesbian, homosexual and even bisexual.

I take it that you've never heard of the ACLU. They've spent quite a bit of time in your state, you know. You would have us take your word that this judge has made homosexual parenting illegal in your neck of the woods? Homosexual parents can neither marry or 'move on' in your particular judicial circuit and can therefore never have their children spend the night with their partner under the same roof?

Though the state lets them adopt.

Seems strange that on one hand the state would determine it's in the best interest of a kid to let them be adopted into a homosexual household but on the other hand allow a judge to forbid kids to be around their homo parent because they're homo.

Your description of the state of affairs in your judicial circuit simply defies the political realities of the world today.

[CCR]

The OP with 10 posts has no clue about how the family law system works. Logic does not apply. Neither does morality. The best case is the judge will ask her to stop it, but will never sanction, no matter how many times the behavior repeats.

There's nothing here endangering the child and family courts have clearly shown that their view is morality neither matters nor is it used in custody decisions.