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Ok So I text my STBX to see if we can work something out before mediation and she says What do you want to discuss?
I said: Time Sharing, Holiday schedule and I want him to go to school by me next year (He is not in a school zone by either one of us so he will need to go to a different school anyway) and everything needs to be discussed,
She said: Ok so we'll have to wait for mediation
So I text back: (Maybe I should have not done it)
Ok, by the way I'm going to have my lawyer call your work and subpoena you work schedule, just wanted to let you know. Also I seen that Jazmine((Her Daughter) just got her Drivers Lic just wondering why you would knowingly let an unlicensed driver pick up our son for so long did you really think that this was safe? on top of that she gets into a car crash with no drivers Lic and no Insurance, this shows your character and thats just a few things I'm going to let the judge know, See ya in mediation.
Ok so you think I'm crazy to say this? I do have proof of all of this by the way.
But again, you can't change what happened. Don't be too hard on yourself. Smile a bit. Forgive yourself. And do not repeat. But seriously, don't be too hard on yourself.
That said, if you don't have the kid this weekend, hope you're getting out & doing something fun. If you do have the kid this weekend, hope the two of you have a blast just doing what ever you're doing.
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