Postby Trevor » Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:47 am
While she may or may not have met the threshold to specifically aver her complaint, you know what she is saying and cannot claim you were not able to defend yourself against that complaint.
The facts remain that 1) there is not an actual "change" in her income upon which the present CS is calculated; 2) her choice to exclude herself from the prior hearing is her own responsibility and she is accountable to its consequences; 3) you acted in good faith to estimate her income in the absence of her cooperation in calculating proper support for the children of the marriage; 4) the judge will probably allow her to be heard, unless your atty argues convincingly aboiut the above items.
Based on the likelihood of 4), I think you should be sure you document fully the arrearage and prepare to ask the court to garnish for whatever it decides is the correct CS amount plus arrearage. Sure, fight to keep the status quo, but if she can provide credible documentation of her income, and it differs from the present assumption that you made, you probably won't get a contempt judgment (I know you haven't mentioned it) and it may not make sense to fight it all the way to court...your lawyer will know best.
Dual Parenting, not Duel Parenting.