My Story

[Edogcooter]

Got it...I'll start moving my stuff back into the house this weekend.

Thanks for the advice.

[golfdad]

Move back into the house. Today.

Listen to the men. They know.

Put your children first in everything you do, think and act upon.

Look for a lawyer with experience working on trust funds and distribution. This point could make or break your financial future. If you have any trust fund documentation, find it and keep it safe.

Your wife is lapping you right now. Time to get your < hindquarters > up to speed.

Pars & Birdies

[stb_divorced]

sorry you have to go thru this with the rest of us. welcome to the board.

get that voice recorder going when you do go home to protect against false DV charges!

[Txbizman]

get that voice recorder going when you do go home to protect against false DV charges!

Ditto... Take this (all of it) advise seriously... Don't think it cant happen to you.... It can!

[Bubba Seal]

get that voice recorder going when you do go home to protect against false DV charges!

Ditto... Take this (all of it) advise seriously... Don't think it cant happen to you.... It can!

It already did happen

[Anything4Her]

Got it...I'll start moving my stuff back into the house this weekend.

Good man. I suggest you move back in immediately and your stuff back in as it is convenient. Stake your claim early and often.

Definitely wear a voice recorder. And stay away from her lover. It will do you no good to confront him further.

Here's a further hint. You want the house (even if you really don't). That's your position.
There is another active thread on here about teen kids who don't want to go to Dad's new place for 1/2 the time because it is too inconvenient, away from their stuff, away from their friends, etc. It is a common story. Keeping the marital home (or selling it and splitting proceeds) will likely gain you more time with the kids than any other housing strategy.

If she wants a new guy, then she can take the actions to be with him. With luck, she'll move out and start staying with him.

[Edogcooter]

I told her that i was moving in this weekend because I'm already going to be staying there to watch the dogs. She's very surprised and wishes that she had more of a heads up. I have 3 months to go on my apartment lease and she thinks I'm crazy for eating this amount of money since I can't get my $$ back. I told her that it's getting too expensive for me to be there and I can crash in the basement.

[Fatheroffour]

I think you're crazy for telling her.

Radio Silence, bro.

[Edogcooter]

I offered her the apartment and she's going to take it. Now what.

[Edogcooter]

Reason I offered the apartment to her is so I wouldn't have to see her cheating face every night when I came home and I stay in the house.