Back and Forth with NJ

[raymccadden]

Did anyone go back to the NJ after she:

1) threatened to kill herself (did that)
2) threatened to financially destroy the family (again)
3) promise to completely change (again)

If you did, how long to she actually change and how long did you stay before knowing you had made a major mistake?

[Fatheroffour]

I did, though I don't remember her threatening to kill herself. Kill me, but not herself. You know it's a mistake going into it. The thing is to make it work for you instead of against you. I've done it several times and each time it was either a push or I came out better off for it. The last time it happened I got to get my attorney to write my divorce decree and parenting plan. She signed off on it without even reading it.

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[Anything4Her]

hey. no one does like a crazy woman.

Unfortunately, there is a lot of empirical data that contradict that statement.

If no one liked crazy women, there would be no need for this forum.

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