Emergency motion for temp. custody.

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Emergency motion for temp. custody.

Postby thecaptain24 » Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:12 pm

Since Monday at the status conference, my sons school has called me in with concerns. Today was harder than most. My son is clinging to his teachers and did not want to go home with his mom. Im going in tomorrow to talk to the school about protocol and at what point they might feel it necessary to contact the appropriate people when abuse is suspected.

Its been numerous things since being with his mom. Like hes all of a sudden being violent again, they've witnessed her having to drag him out the door of the school. And like i said, today he didn't leave his teachers side, not even when outside during recess and did not want to leave with her. I don't know what to do at this point since I know hes afraid, but the school obviously needs to see it as a pattern but they are definitely paying attention. He has never done this before with her, but shes been very unstable since I filed for a motion for modification. Shes gone off the deep end. They also saw when I stopped in the other day to see him (my step son is in the class next to him), he clung to me. Did not want to let me go. He was kissing and hugging me. He has never done this, even when he was happy and doing well in my full care.

At what point do I move forward with this, i still have 3 months until final hearing. There is a Child family investigator involved. Should I call her? Have her contact the school? I'm afraid its more than just her bad mouthing me and putting fear into him about me. I think the threat is real to him.
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Re: Emergency motion for temp. custody.

Postby Fatheroffour » Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:18 pm

This is the kind of thing you want the school personnel talking to the child family investigator about.

Not real familiar with the term or how your state looks at them but assuming they're like a CE or a GAL, you want the school personnel that are involved on your witness list of people to talk to.
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Re: Emergency motion for temp. custody.

Postby thecaptain24 » Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:26 pm

Fatheroffour wrote:This is the kind of thing you want the school personnel talking to the child family investigator about.

Not real familiar with the term or how your state looks at them but assuming they're like a CE or a GAL, you want the school personnel that are involved on your witness list of people to talk to.


Yeah, its pretty much the same thing. The school is on the list of people, which they are very much on my side because of the past year and whats happened. But shes just starting her investigation. It could be weeks before she talks to them. Can i bring this up as an urgent matter with her and ask to speak with them sooner?

The behaviors and fear he shows towards her is escalating more each day. Shes pissed everything is not going her way, and I know for a fact she is taking it out on him. She did it right in front of the teachers the other day. (Long story) but they actually wrote up a report about it. shes mad because I've been stopping in to see him at school when I get my step son. And within 3 days is already concerning the school.

I think she is abusing him at this point.
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Re: Emergency motion for temp. custody.

Postby Fatheroffour » Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:31 pm

Teachers/school personnel are mandatory reporters. It sounds like they're on the right track.
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