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As the article mentions, it is the beta males who benefit. The alphas will still spread far and wide.
with the faithfulness of his reproductive partner he can never be sure
A science teacher I had once said that, before we had DNA testing, if a man wanted to make sure he left his wealth and property for inheritance to his next of kin then he would have to leave it to his sister's children. As these were the only ones he could be sure were carrying some of his genes.
Well, I think you could get many divorced men to join their cause if you could get a groundswell of divorced men passing on information like this article.
I sat down with a co-worker who's young son is flirting with a less then desirable women and I told her to read many articles like this and start thinking with his big head. Something young men don't do in their 20s/early 30s.
By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. Socrates
It can also easily be said that the typical american male today is the biggest wimp humanity has ever known. Engaging daily in porn, video games, having 'friends', sports fans, media consumption, disdain for education/knowledge, laziness, etc etc. All of which are completely contrary to advancing humanity, or even as simple as providing for their families. Men have let themselves become what they are.
I would probably blame the 60's generation and the media, which only propagates this Idiocracy mentality(great great great movie btw). Good bye baby boomers, hopefully we dont have to hear anymore about how your WWII hero father was 'aloof' and 'cold'. The hippies sold us a bill of goods that is now common knowledge thanks to your TV set. This problem is societal and the gender debates are just a bi-product.
"Our youth now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for their elders and love chatter in place of exercise; they no longer rise when elders enter the room; they contradict their parents, chatter before company; gobble up their food and tyrannize their teachers." — Socrates
"Today in America there are nearly twice as many people working for the government (22.5 million) than in all of manufacturing (11.5 million). This is an almost exact reversal of the situation in 1960, when there were 15 million workers in manufacturing and 8.7 million collecting a paycheck from the government."
actually laying on the couch and reading the entire article and sub articles this afternoon while watching pga golf at beautiful Harbortown was something I could not do when I was married to my "Misandriet."
From my personal experience, having been married to a devote misandriest, its all about control. She wants to control you, her surroundings, employer and society. Its all about control, as if she is making up for thousands of years that she perceives women had no control.
"Another positive ramification of advanced adult entertainment technologies is that women will have to sharpen the sole remaining attribute which technology cannot substitute - the capacity to make a man feel loved. Modern women will be forced to reacquaint themselves with this ancient concept in order to generate a competitive advantage. This necessity could lead to a movement of pragmatic women conducting a wholesale repudiation of misandry masquerading as 'feminism' that has created this state of affairs, and thus will be the jolt that benefits both men and women. "
I see it already happening, its a part of the tea party movement, and its been a ground swell for at least 10-15 years. Average Americans are sick of the Hollywood & Media sewerpipe. There are a lot of good women out there that flat out reject popular feminism & misandrism. They primarily do not live on the coasts. Women are tired of being told their parents and heritage are wrong. These women are typically faithful, Christian, Muslim, etc.
This is an entirely different psychological foundation than the present urban feminist norm of a woman marrying at the age of 34 after having had 10 or more prior sexual relationships, who then promptly emerges from her svelte chrysalis in an event that can best be described as a fatocalypse.
Lived it, its unfortunately real.
The Venusian Arts
I agree this helps train otherwise wussified men into lovers. It helped me, but I let it go in my marriage. You have to live it once you learn it.
[i]Lefto-'feminists' will be outbred and replaced very quickly, and rural American conservatives will be the only resiliently youthful population [/i]
Cant wait to see 2020, if he is indeed that accurate
I see it already happening, its a part of the tea party movement, and its been a ground swell for at least 10-15 years.
Guess it hasn't made it to my neck of the woods yet. [/quote]
I meet more women like this everyday. in fact I meet fewer and fewer obnoxious liberal women everyday, like I used to in the 90's. In the 90's it seemed like everyone was an obnoxious vegetarian liberal. I think the luster of liberalism has worn off for many regular people. You may not have met any, but they make up the tea parties, and are Palin fans. I am telling you, the numbers are growing.
I meet more women like this everyday. in fact I meet fewer and fewer obnoxious liberal women everyday, like I used to in the 90's.
I'd love to meet a liberal woman who believes the woman can be on top, that the woman can initiate, that the woman should have a career, that 50-50 parenting should be the norm, and that no one should receive special treatment due to their sex.
Post divorce I did date someone like this. She & her hubby had comparable educations & incomes. True joint decison making with 50-50 parenting and no primary. Focus on the kids. No CS. Certanly no spousal support. She was very liberal in her beliefs, but practiced them 100%, not half way.
The problem is that they want it all. They haven't let go of the Victorian / Puritanical past, but they want equality. You can't have it all.
Palin and her hubby, along with their daughter tried to destroy the father of their grandchild. Thankfully he put up a fight. And now that hcild has two parents. Wouldn't be too quick to put any badges on them on co-pareniting, and this has nothing to do with which "party" they're part of. Direct observation & review of articles and filings associated with the case, sent up serious alarms.
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