Thanks for the reply. I'm going to talk to my realtor to get his advice, since he's tuned in to the local market.
On the 4/2 vs 3/2 issue, for me it's a matter of do I need the extra space in a 4/2 (and the extra cost). To your point about neighborhoods, every hood up here is a mix of homes, and some 3/2s could have more sqft than a 4/2. So maybe I should be focusing on square footage instead of beds/baths.

Also, most of the used homes for sale in the hoods I like are priced crazy high. I realize the seller is starting high for the eventual negotiations, and they also think the new carpet and cabinets they put in four years ago are worth $20k, but the two new construction options I'm considering (new development near all the old homes) are priced lower than most of the 12 year old homes for sale.
Renting just doesn't appeal to me. I like the idea of pulling right up to my home and having a yard for the dog and to play soccer with my kid. For some reason I really don't like having to go to a bank of mailboxes to get my mail...gimme my own mailbox at the end of my driveway.
New construction appeals to me, because the homes will be built to the current code, with better energy efficiency, and new materials.
I don't know. Where's my realtor?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
