Just Getting Seperated , no assets

[Lapaz25]

Hi, I am just beginning this journey, My (To Be) Ex and her sister tried to run her fathers business after he passed in 2001, in 2007 I found out tey had not been sending with holding in. We personally were audited and IRS took our home equity, life insurance, IRA. Then she worked 2009/2010 drawing unemployment because they were not making an money. Will any of this have an effect on my SS?
Our house in in forecloser and no cash assets. I make 55K and have a 13 year old son. She cleans afew houses and takes care of an aunt, all cash money( 1000/mo)

Should I list these things for a judge?

Thanks

[Fatheroffour]

You should document everything for possible use as evidence.

[Lapaz25]

Thanks

UPDATE: I accessed bank records, while I was working out of state late 2009/2010 the wife deposited tens of thousands of dollars in our personal acct and wrote out payroll checks, thousands of dollars to "cash" all the while collecting unemployment...