Yup. My NJ may have "got hers" for the first 120 days of the separation (free room and board), but that's about to come to a head. I dumped my idiot lawyer and got a good lawyer/shark. I wasn't very optimistic for a while...but at this point...I won't be surprised if she winds up having to back-pay me for: 4 (months) x $1,000 (failing to pay for living expenses), $2,500+ (attorney fees for the sole purpose of taking her to court to get money out of her because she hasn't paid a cent in months), and her a55 booted out of the house within 30-90 days of the 8/9 court date (the most likely scenario).
The low end has me getting $4,000 out of her in short order...and possibly $6,500. Granted she doesn't have that kind of money, but that's exactly the point. The lawyer has very craftily written up the amended complaint (fixing lawyer #1's $h1t) to essentially say "You have two options: 1. Vacate the house now, agree to a six month separation, and we'll let the money issue go, or 2. Stay...and it's going to cost you." Yeah...after 120 days of getting done-dry...I've finally got a smile on my face.
