Wife took 3 kids & left out of state for another man

[armedforcesguy]

You're attorney's job is to advise you. It's been the aggregate experience of this forum that strategy isn't necessarily their strong suit.

I'll tell you now that it's unlikely that this attorney you are going to interview is going to think going to get your kids and bring them back home against their mothers objection is a good idea. He'll give you all the possible negative outcomes and explain how you will get hammered in court for it.

Should you find a good attorney, they will also advise you similarly, but will also give you an idea as to whether or not they feel they can make a reasonable case for your actions.


Your case is yours. It's for you to execute and your attorney to argue. The kids have been gone three months. Action should have happened at least 2 months ago. Lies or not.

I agree I should have acted quickly and better! Some things I can't undo. But I think all the perspective and the "slapping in the face" I got on here will help me avoid future mistakes. There's a cost to be paid for the ones I already made in dealing with this situation but I can only try to mitigate them as best as I can.

The attorney I'm getting has been documented to be the best (VERY expensive as well) and is a bulldog. I trust he will be realistic but aggressive.

[armedforcesguy]

And by "Home" I mean the childrens home. Not your buddies couch.

Home and children, with the associated schools and friends are usually a matched set in custody disputes.

Yes I understand. I will have to establish a home here again.

[Trevor]

Captain Vocabulary will remind you that "cuckold" simply means your wife cheated on you. This is no reflection on you as a man or your character; rather it speaks to the deficiency of quality of a human being that is your spouse. No need to get all offended by something that isn't being hung on you, or that you could control.

[Fatheroffour]

That would be the historic definition, not really as curently used.

Check your porn aggregate sites if you would like to see examples.

OR, Ben Diamond was outed as a cuckold on last weeks episode of Magic City.