Why do they do that?

[Sandman]

Is it just my stbx or do all the ex's and stbx's start to look better the minute they are out of your life? My stbx is dressing sexier, letting her hair grow, starting to wear thong underwear (I saw her when she bent down to pick up our son ) No, I'm not being naive, I'm sure she is doing the horizontal bop with some one (she is his problem now ) but damn! why do they do that!

[CustodyIQ]

It's done to rub your face in what you lost.

If you're concerned, I think the proper response for you would be to accidentally drop a roll of hundred dollar bills and then nonchalantly pick it up and put it back in your pocket.

[Sandman]

Especially after I get my new < hindquarters > implants
Thanks CustodyIQ

[CBH'sDaddy]

Its true..........

This is what i do.......... Hit the Gym everyday and Make myself look better. ITs a good stress reliever. Remember its easier for a girl to get laid than us Men.

[viperville]

Mine doesn't even look like the same girl. Of course money bought her some of the change. Money that came from the equity in our former home. Money well spent for her, money I can only imagine well spent for me.

[Trevor]

I suppose I am lucky that mine looks worse now. She was doing the extramarital thing, in part due to a weight loss program and feeling more "marketable" I suppose (and she did look better then). She started wearing clothes too small for her body and too "young" for her age. Now that I am gone she seems to be realizing what she's lost. There will be no sex with the ex.

[Lawmoe]

SUGGESTION: When you start thinking of your ex in that way and see the body, remember the head of the hydra that caused the divorcce. There is generally not enough alohol to make one go back to that.

[Sandman]

Thong update.....STBX did not have a thong on this morning (a least I don't think she did) when she came to pick up our son. She was dressed in a much more reserved fashion....sweat pants and shirt. Maybe she knows that I'm on to her I asked her yesterday who the dental floss undies were for.

[TooNice]

SUGGESTION: When you start thinking of your ex in that way and see the body, remember the head of the hydra that caused the divorcce. There is generally not enough alohol to make one go back to that.

This is exactly why I'm documenting EVERY incident from the past I can remember. That way whenever I get a dose of eye-candy, I can go read about the time I got chewed out because HER dog puked on the carpet. Or her planning our divorce for YEARS behind my back. Or her running up the credit cards. Or ......

[Sandman]

To continue with TooNice's comments...how about chewing too loud or not folding the laundry properly.