My X decided to be unfaithful from the time we got married until our recent divorce. I caught her in some of these affairs and because of our daughter and wanting to stay there for the kids (She had 2 from her first marriage) I promised the kids I wouldn’t turn my back on them for any reason and even thru all she has done I still haven’t it’s not the kids fault.
Back in April of this year my x took off with our daughter and her 2 while I was at work sent me a message that said if I wasn’t out in three days I wouldn’t see our daughter again and Ill make sure your out one way or another. I swear on my life I was never violent physical or anything like that I worked and came home she would leave and be gone all night sometimes days at a time.
Anyway When she left I got my stuff and was out in 3 days during my moving out I was hit with divorce papers and a temp custody order also the local Police Dept came over to question me and look around (Embarrassing because I work close with those guys in my line of work) My x had claimed that I had assaulted her and our home was destroyed from the abuse etc. They investigated me I was put on suspension with my job because of it they interviewed her etc long story short she got in trouble for filing a false police report I was found Innocent and returned to work She kept our daughter away from me for six weeks when I had been the primary care giver since day one.
During the divorce process she started acting like she did when she was pregnant with our daughter I told my attorney and nothing was done I found out she was / is pregnant 4 months along now and our divorce has only been final for a month.
I live in Missouri and like most other states perjury is a big no no since there is now proof that she did lie under oath about not being pregnant would I stand a chance at getting full custody because of this?
She now has 3 kids by 3 different men (didn’t know that until we were going thru our divorce) and a 4th on the way by another guy. We currently have full legal and physical joint custody we share equal time (Our daughter isn’t even 2 years old yet)
I really only want what’s best for our daughter and its not her, The X is always dropping her off dirty and in clothes that haven’t been washed in days (or the last time I did them) What should I do?
