Some text mesages.

[stretchkr]

The radio silence, the mr nice guy, and the mr wonderful have made this much easier to deal with. My stbx affair is out in the open, by no doing of mine, and her friends and family are constantly bugging me asking what is going on. I just respectfully say that they need to ask her. I wouldn't have known about any of it, without this site, and would likely be a complete pushover and being in some kind of < edited > open marriage, or even worse, moved out and not seeing my babies.

[Trevor]

Growth and personal development totally rock out.

Rock out with your < wee-wee > out.

[keko]

My stbx affair is out in the open.

I wonder if her lovers know she is married?

"They cheated with you, they'll cheat on you" is the first thing that came to my mind if one of them tries to get their relationship to the next level.

[Fatheroffour]

Stretch appears to be cruising to victory. Who cares whether her lovers have done their due diligence or not?

[stretchkr]

Yeah FOF. Not my problem I just want it to last until its no longer in my benefit too.

[stretchkr]

HAHA stbx just told me she asked her new guy that took her home from the bar to tell her if he sleeps with someone else. Hopefully she is off my insurance by the time she gets ghonerchlamidisyphills, because I'm sure yeah, hes going to say if he sleeps with someone else.

Its amazing how lost and clueless she has become.

[Trevor]

You enjoy the drama a bit too much. Stop talking with her. Find your entertainment somewhere else...if you can.

[stretchkr]

She talks to me, and I just nod. It disgusts me honestly, but she is going to be gone, outta the house by July 1st. And the more I get along with her, the more distracted she is about what is really going on. Seriously trying to ignore her doesn't work, she follows me around like a puppy. A few more weeks is all.

[Southern.Putter]

She talks to me, and I just nod. It disgusts me honestly, but she is going to be gone, outta the house by July 1st. And the more I get along with her, the more distracted she is about what is really going on. Seriously trying to ignore her doesn't work, she follows me around like a puppy. A few more weeks is all.

You've got a winning state of mind and are doing a great job of keeping your eye on the prize! Well done!

(also, agree with others about the "growth" that we all go through in this bizarre social process called divorce)