Getting Remarried and Wanting Kids In Wedding Issue

[newwife]

I feel your frustration. Coparenting shouldnt be this way. You should be able to compromise...move schedules around...tolerate each other..communicate...put aside jealousies and anger for your child's sake....
But when dealing with an NJ-all bets are off..
Your life is as difficult as she can possibly make it

[madalex]

I am getting re-married and my wedding is in a couple months.

I'm a little confused. Back in January, you posted about recently getting remarried. In March, you had some posts about your new wife's ex and trying to get child support from him. The above post would suggest you are planning another wedding for a couple months from now. What is really going on?

[hanzblinx]

of you have no prenup, good luck with all that

[dobradavid]

Ditto.

of you have no prenup, good luck with all that

[texasowl]

Sorry to beat this dead horse, but you are much better off not planning ANYTHING on NJ's weekends. I recently got remarried and had my two kiddos in the wedding...for this to happen, we laid out the weekends we had the kids and limited our planning options to those dates. Birthday parties, grandparents' visits, etc., ALL get planned on my weekends. You'll save yourself a lot of headaches just cutting NJ completely out of the picture. Good luck and I hope you're able to get your kids for the wedding!