My atty messed up

[Fatheroffour]

Attorneys don't have to live with the mess made during a divorce. What little they do have to deal with they get paid good money to do.

The attorney that says "Just keep screwing her out of the money until she figures out how to fix it" doesn't have to live with another 2 decades of mistrust.
The attorney that says "Sure, keep drinking. She has no case." doesn'y have to deal with seeing the kids every other weekend because the judge erred on the side of caution.

[Trevor]

I get it. Can you blame her for thinking that it was deliberate?

Do you think I believe my X's atty "made a mistake" when he put an easter egg in the decree, setting aside $90,000 for her in the sale of the home section?

Don't get hung up in the frustration of her unwillingness to negotiate with you. If another mediation is not possible, you will have to suck it up and do your best at trial.

Still waiting to hear what your atty's response was to that question...

[AlmostSingle]

I get it. Can you blame her for thinking that it was deliberate?

Do you think I believe my X's atty "made a mistake" when he put an easter egg in the decree, setting aside $90,000 for her in the sale of the home section?

Don't get hung up in the frustration of her unwillingness to negotiate with you. If another mediation is not possible, you will have to suck it up and do your best at trial.

Still waiting to hear what your atty's response was to that question...

I see your point about her thinking it was deliberate, and If it was the other way around I would probably feel the same way.

I spoke to my atty. I let him know how I felt about the situation. He agreed that he was in the wrong for not backing me, then offered to go to court with me. But when I told him the date and time he said he had to be in trial that day. Wether or not he is BS'ing me......I don't know. But he did offer to back me up after the fact if things did not go the way that they should.