what have you witnessed and still maintained radio silence?

[Here_We_Go]

Emotional ties with NJs: it is hard to to be emotionless but you have to try to. after being on here for a while i think you will come to understand that there are much worse things than her hooking up and trying to rub it in your face. I wouldn't care. what i would do is try like he11 to keep drama down in your life right now. it sounds like you are doing that. i remember reading on here about mom teaching kids to call new man daddy. that sounds unbreable to me, but her moving on with her life I say good. I think you should think of it like she still is not over you, *poor thing*. she still cares enough to find those, tanit them, and place them in a place she will know you will find them all to get a reaction out of you.

As it relates to pictures : pictures of us as family i will store in case son want to see when he is older, us as a couple are all down and waiting for the day it is signed to do something special. pics of stbx with son are with stbx, pic of superdad with son and son solo are displayed. stbx always complained why there weren't more pics of her with son, never complained about wanting to see and do things worth taking pictures with him more. loco

Stay strong and good job on coping with this outside of the house. NJ love drama.

[hoosier_dad]

I watched my ex get skanked up for months to go out and spend the night with Mr Wonderful, rubbing my nose in it in an effort to get me to move out. She'd leave the second I got home and come back the next morning most of those nights, giving me and the children all the alone time we could ask for. I'll admit at the start it was tough to watch her walk out all dressed up, but after months of getting 0 reaction out of me the only emotion I had to control was the overwhelming need to vomit in my mouth in her presence.

5 months of radio silence during cohabitation hell proved priceless when she was given ~a week to pack up and get out.

[Chosen2Dad]

Quite frankly...who cares...I know I know...I'm on the outside...I am senstive...it's not important down the road..if you want some panties...I know some people.

As for radio silence..the guys on here keep my silence in check...as far as dealing with the kids...you don't have to tell her crap really...unless it's important...but not how many bowel movements they had.

Her mother was stalking me in the house and I maintained radio silence...just video-taping secretly.

[Kruss]

Radio silence is golden.

So far, the stuff I have witnessed is no different that what others have already said.

The STBX just always gives me a puzzled look when she stops after yelling at me.

My STBX does similar to what Hoosierdad's did. She leaves out with friends all the time. The few hours a night has grown to spending the night out with friends. I'm sure the next stop will be spending the weekend. Then, I'm sure it could be a week or longer.

Meanwhile, I'm taking care of my kids and the house being the best father I can be because that's what they deserve.

[mygirlsaremylife]

ive not really been lookig for stuff but she has eft things around in rather obvious places

2 days ago i found her new calendar wide open on the nightstand
the day our D7 goes back to school... nothing
The day her new bf goes back to school she ha a note "i love you baby, youll do awesome in school this yr"

I was more than anything hurt that she made no mention of my daughter's return to class, but im sure she is so far up his < edited > at the moment that her priorities are not in the right place, but the best part is that they never really were, which is why we are where we are.