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[snostorm]

Pending divorce and is very nasty. Shocker right? Anyway I do not have the money to retain legal representation at this time and keep my household going. Have a 10 year old daughter. We have seperate bank accounts and one joint account. Recently she gave my private account number to an insurance broker who subsequently withdrew money from my account for car insurance with out my knowledge or consent. I asked her if she gave the broker my account information and she said yes but she asserts she didnt give permission for the transaction. Which is totally not true. I recorded the conversation when she found out she flipped.

Now she is putting locks on certain rooms in the house specifically the laundry room to prevent me from using the washer and dryer, Can she do this? Is this legal? We have separate bedrooms and I put a lock on mine because she was going in my room and taking things.

[defaultuser]

You should call the police immediately and report the fraud. It will get sorted out, but if she wasn't on your account, then she may be prosecuted, which would help.

Its your home too right? If she's locking up the laundry, remove the door to the laundry room... I would not invade her personal space however, and make sure that you read the list and protect yourself.

[Fatheroffour]

You should contact your banking institution and report the unauthorized withdrawal and you should review the links in my signature.

[Chosen2Dad]

make sure you are one-party state if you are recording conversations to aid you later. As for use of the rooms in the house, it's your house. As Default said, don't invade her personal space, but laundry is public use in the house, so use it. Don't use it if she is present using the washer/dryer...

Close that account and open a new one...don't leave any of your checking info out.

[burned_out]

that whole war of the roses mentality that seems to happen scares me too. Right now the extent of it is when she's out, I leave the porch light on, even when I'm out and leave it on prior, its turned off. Petty right? Hang in there - I like the idea of taking the door off the hinges. I am going to have to stop by the Volvo dealer myself and get a spare key made for "her" car, which only has me on the title and note. The spare key hath gone missing and I got noise. This week my agreement should be ready. I am dropping this bomb on her and to be honest, For two months I've held it together, I have a few choice words, but keep them buttoned up. Wonder if its worth posting what I've seen lately for you guys to see or not.

sorry to hijack.

[BubbaGumpShrimp]

that whole war of the roses mentality that seems to happen scares me too. Right now the extent of it is when she's out, I leave the porch light on, even when I'm out and leave it on prior, its turned off. Petty right? Hang in there - I like the idea of taking the door off the hinges. I am going to have to stop by the Volvo dealer myself and get a spare key made for "her" car, which only has me on the title and note. The spare key hath gone missing and I got noise. This week my agreement should be ready. I am dropping this bomb on her and to be honest, For two months I've held it together, I have a few choice words, but keep them buttoned up. Wonder if its worth posting what I've seen lately for you guys to see or not.

sorry to hijack.

That's a good idea on the key. I don't have a copy of the key for the NJ's Acura. I'm going to have a hell of a time getting that thing back, though I would imagine that she'll be awarded the car in whatever settlement is hammered out.

[Txbizman]

24/7 recording.... The < edited > bout to hit the fan

[snostorm]

its so petty and childish. I offered mediation, Told her I would pay 17 percent child support. She wants me to pay half of her student loans. On consultation with a lawyer I was told her loans her license I am not responsible. Also that unless she proves I am unfit father shared custody she would request in which I would pay her nothing. All I want is whats best for my daughter. She wants to destroy. Just a horrible nasty vindictive person. It was explained to me that all degrees obtained during marriage are considered marital assets. She has a masters in nursing and is an NP. she has recently reduced her hours.....classic.