Probably super simple, what does NJ mean?

[I want the kids]

Searched a little but couldn't find it. I'm a little lazy too at times.

thanks,

[Fatheroffour]

Nut JOb.

You can find an acronym list in my signature.

[BartSimpson]

Nut Job. Yours is the most common question for a new member, so welcome.

There is a movement here to stop using the acronym, and I am participating by trying to use other words or spell it out.

It is confusing, and I hope others will stop using it for the benefit of our new members and clarity of writing. But it does describe in 2 letters the vast mutual experience of us Dads with our soon to be and ex-wives, so there is nothing wrong with it per se.