Divorce Jurisdiction

[dacoming]

I believe she wants me to be around and in my son's life and she knows our daughters are crazy about me; they see me as their real dad. She wants things on her own terms though. For example, she would be happy if I just saw our son regularly but he never stayed a night away from her which she knows I will never go for. My son is crazy about both of us but she gives him everything she wants and lets him control her; I check him and teach him responsibility. She is banking on him, being that he is almost 14, picking her to stay with if we divorce because she lets him get his way. And to be honest that worries me although I know he loves me no less. And she always makes him feel guilty to pick me over her in any situation. When she thinks he is doing that, she goes off and threatens not to do anything for him anymore. I told her, he respects me more because I demand that he respects me; you don't. He looks up to me. I do believe, although I know I love her, that we would not be together if it wasn't for our son. There is no way I would take all of this BS if it wasn't for him. As I mentioned, our daughters are grown. She knows how important it is for me to grow up in the same house as my son. She throws it in my face all the time about him growing up in the house with another man if we break up.