Needing advice - Please help

[keko]

Install one so this way you can monitor what she's upto, who's she's talking to, what her plans are, etc.

Have a look at http://www.desktopshark.com/products/index.php they have a free trial for a few days.

[Kruss]

Update over the weekend...

As no surprise to anybody here, I'm still in the house.

I spent most of the weekend taking care of my S10 who was sick with a stomach bug.

She went out with her friends on Friday and Saturday night while I was at home taking care of the kids.

I have been documenting in my journal, and I have been making sure my recorder is recording.

I had no confrontations over the weekend.

[Kruss]

Update...

STBX has told me that she is going out of town with her friends on Monday, and she does not know when she is coming back.

I have been doing like you guys have told me and have been documenting everything I do with my kids.

I'm running into problems with the attorney at the moment. Simply put, I need to save. I just don't have enough money at the moment. I ran into some automobile problems that I had to use some money on that.

I'm looking at selling my Coca-Cola and baseball card collections, but I wanted to give those to my son when he got older.

[Fatheroffour]

With luck, she won't come back at all.

[TejasDad]

"Never interrupt your enemy when they are making a mistake."

Make it easy on her to go out and leave town often. The longer and more often this goes on, the better for you. Don't worry so much about selling your stuff. You can always replace things like that.

[Kruss]

You guys are right.

Thanks.

[MrCoolDC]

Take photos of your card collection to show your son when he gets older.

[Kruss]

Good idea.

It's been a while since I categorized them as well.

I know what I'm doing this weekend while I'm saving money and watching the kids.

Thanks.

[Trevor]

Investments in Coca-Cola paraphernalia and baseball cards fall away quickly when compared to investments necessary to ensure/protect your rightful place in your kids' lives. Keep your True North true.

[Kruss]

Update....I'm an idiot....

I got into a confrontation with my STBX over finances yesterday...

I was upset because I overdrafted on the joint account because I miscalculated when the final transactions would go through that would complete my use of it, and some unexpected transactions occurred.

I would not be surprised if I get served papers to leave my house...

I feel like such a dumba$$...