I did what I had to do

[Gator]

Not a problem. I'll keep ypu updated. That way, you can learn from my freakin' mistakes.

I'm not really making mistakes, though. My attorney is very smart, and knows what she is doing. She advised me, that since the old PO had expired, and the new one hadn't been served yet (it does not officially go into effect until it is served...despite when it was written and signed) it was advisable to see my son this past Wednesday. She suggested that we do it in a very public place, which we did, and try to steer any conversations towards only the welfate/custody of my son, and the finances.

All this was from an experienced attorney. I followed her advice.

[tsawyer]

Not a problem. I'll keep ypu updated. That way, you can learn from my freakin' mistakes.

I'm not really making mistakes, though. My attorney is very smart, and knows what she is doing. She advised me, that since the old PO had expired, and the new one hadn't been served yet (it does not officially go into effect until it is served...despite when it was written and signed) it was advisable to see my son this past Wednesday. She suggested that we do it in a very public place, which we did, and try to steer any conversations towards only the welfate/custody of my son, and the finances.

All this was from an experienced attorney. I followed her advice.

Did you get her audio recorded at the Pizza Parlor? If you didn't, you made a HUGE mistake.

[Gator]

It is done. The PO has been served. I am back at home, with my son. THis was her doing. Not mine. Next week, she gets served with the divorce papers. My attorney filed on the grounds of cruelty and abandonment of the marriage.

I have a feeling this is going to be a long and uncomfortable ride.

[Fatheroffour]

Do you know why divorces cost so much?

[Gator]

Because its worth it?

[BartSimpson]

Because its worth it?

Because we have to shovel the gravel for our kids foundation.

[Gator]

I've got one, I just don't know if I want it right now. I am happy to be back in my house with my son, but there is an air of sadness about this entire thing. My son is sad because he misses mommy. He told me that before he went to sleep. I felt like a monster, then I remembered the day she attacked me. She screamed at him when he started crying. I feel like a lot less of a monster now.

[Gator]

OK. I need some input on this one. Please PM everyone out there and have them read and give input. It is making me very nervous.

So, as you all know, she was served the PO today. In her rush to get out of the house, she left behind one of her bags. I thought she may have not needed it and it was empty. However, when I picked it up, I could feel that it was full.

Curiousity got the better of me and I began to rummage through it. Inside was some very nice lingerie, bras etc...AND $1600.00 in cash! That didn't bother me quite as much as her birth control pills. Why might that bother me, you might ask. Well...because I had a vasectomy after our son was born! She doesn't need the pill!

Please. Somebody try to make sense of this for me.

[keko]

The trip to PR is only the tip of the iceberg, she's been screwing around much longer then you thought. Check her computer for secret email or hook up site accounts. Also her phone bill as well. But I'm afraid you already know how deep she's in.

[keko]

I would also add since she's on bc, she's getting creampied left and right you might want to get tested for STDs right away.