STBX keeps having bills sent in my name

[TXSTBX]

The STBX has been taking the kids to the doctor and to counseling and doesn't pay the copay. She then makes sure the provider sends ME the bill.

What's the best way to get this under control?

If I'm paying the bill, I want first dibs on bringing the kids to the appointments.

[Fatheroffour]

I have an ex that continues to do this. I dend out drop dead letters each time but I'm not sure how well that will work with providers you want to maintain a reltionship with.

[golfdad]

I went through this.

I called each provider and had them change the name on the bill back to the adult that attended and authorized treatment at the appointment. They all agreed. I told each provider that I had no knowledge of the appointment and did not authorize treatment, and will not be held responsible for the payment.

I expected a fight from them. I am the Insurance provider for the family. But none of the health providers ever questioned me.

The end result is that I now attend all doctors visits, emergency room trips and fill all prescriptions. STBX will not pay a dime towards children's health care.

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