Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oath

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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby GA_DevastatedDad » Thu Feb 02, 2012 12:44 pm

Thanks To all FOR helping me get back my focus: sometimes i just need to do a little venting. I do want to get back in front of a Judge though because with no orders/Paperwork I am dead in the water. any suggestions?
I am about to research some of these links you all posted about the parenting schedule and stuff. Please remember this is a Temporary hearing but Ive learn whats Temporary tends to become Permenant very fast if its in her favor
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby Fatheroffour » Thu Feb 02, 2012 2:05 pm

Just guessing but I assume her attorney practices law in front of this judge regularly.

"(judge) told her lawyer that I better have a custody hearing at most by Feb 29th If not he's gonna wanna know why.......until then everything will remain the same...."


"Sorry your Honor. Been pretty busy and couldn't schedule any open time that corresponded with the courts calendar. I believe we've found a favorable time in just a couple of weeks."

There are two strategies. One, speed it through court before you have time to prepare. I don't think that's the one her attorney has chosen.

Two, Stall. Freeze you out. Build status quo doing whatever she wants with you on the outside looking in. The longer they stall on their terms, the better for them and the worse for you.

If they are going to stall you need to use your time wisely. Focus on kid, kids issues, learning the law and building your case. Getting sidetracked with police investigations, criminal charges, her, her BF, flame wars or the way you are being treated do you no good in the long run.

There is a lot of waiting built into the system. Use it wisely. If it doesn't involve your child, evidence concerning your child, evidence concerning your fatherly duties or making money to pay for an attorney you are sidetracked yet again and the results of your case will show it.
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby GA_DevastatedDad » Fri Feb 03, 2012 6:37 pm

[quote=" Seriously? Do you really think a police officer is going to waste his time and come to see you when he's not getting paid for it? If he wasn't on the clock, how did he get the call to come out there? .[/quote]

Today Internal Affairs called STBX didnt call the sheriff dept and the DIspatch center has no record of dispatching a any sheriff to that area that night. They are lauching full investigation to find out who the officers were. That will included calling STBX in for questioning :D I wrote a letter to the judge letting him know her L hadn't giving me the orders and STBX's actions along with a copy of the complaint to IA,,,,yes I sent her L a copy....by snail mail
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby Fatheroffour » Fri Feb 03, 2012 7:12 pm

"Yes sir Mr DevestatedDad. We'll launch a full investigation and get to the bottom of this for you. We apologize for any inconvenience. Would you like an escort to your car?"

Maybe the Guvna will assign a task force.
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby GA_DevastatedDad » Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:02 pm

lol
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby GA_DevastatedDad » Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:03 pm

with that said I will be finish the PP tomorrow
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby GA_DevastatedDad » Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:04 pm

and I have to answer this divorce summons thingy
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby BartSimpson » Fri Feb 03, 2012 10:36 pm

I just want to say that when this whole thing blows up and the national news discovers the posts on this forum, and Nancy Grace is interviewing FoF asking why we didn't try to do something or tell someone . . . and DMK is telling Anderson Cooper how he lived in the thread right next door and always wondered . . . and A4H is on Good Morning America bemoaning how it ruins Georgia's fine reputation . . . and Trevor is on The View talking about how fundamentalist always do this . . .

I want the interview with Jon Stewart. This thread is made for The Daily Show.
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby TransAm » Fri Feb 03, 2012 11:25 pm

GA_DevastatedDad wrote:with that said I will be finish the PP tomorrow



Ah, just go do it now. Never hold a 12 pack in. Bad for your kidneys.
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Re: Rd2 temp custody hearing Feb29th and STBX lied under oa

Postby Chris A » Sat Feb 04, 2012 3:43 am

Man this rabbit hole runs deep!
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