You sound like I used to a long time ago when I was fresh out of the Florida swamps...
Sounds like you done good...just keep in mind everything you're learning here and from the courts.
Congrats on the extra time, and HELL yes, buy those dang glasses. What a lifesaver they could be for you.............
Peace
When your ex says .. you will never find anyone like me .. and you reply .. God I sure hope not...